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« on: January 13, 2010, 11:20:58 AM »

Either I:

A.)  Tell him.

B.)  Let it ride.

Problem:
I haven't been getting the attention/pleasure I used to.
He's been pretty...straight to the point, no foreplay....and it's just not cool.

I don't want this to carry on.....so, obviously I'm going to talk to him about it. Timing is everything in this matter, I must choose my time wisely.

*sigh*  What a drag.
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« Reply #1 on: January 13, 2010, 12:13:09 PM »

Aww, good luckq I hope you have a good talk with him and things improve
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« Reply #2 on: January 13, 2010, 12:27:38 PM »

KB-  I think you should "get mediaeval on his ass" (BG- name that movie!) meaning; whips, chains, leathers, etc.  You can communicate your  needs without saying one word!  Then he'll think, "Shit, this gal means business!"

Otherwise, I think this is a perfect opportunity for verbal communication.  You should definately tell him that you know for a fact that low frequency or low quality sex kills relationships, and that in fact, you've been studying it on a forum for quite a few years. 

You are just too smoking hot NOT to be wholly worshipped!
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« Reply #3 on: January 13, 2010, 12:46:52 PM »

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You are just too smoking hot NOT to be wholly worshipped!
Yeah, what she said!!

I discovered a new, assertive side recently and just told him straight, mid act as it were.  I wasn't harsh or mean (I don't think) but I was just like "uh uh you gotta work for that, try again" with a big grin, and did a little guiding of the hands... I'm not usually one for the dominant thing but that did get me going a little, he didn't take offence and now he knows what to do Smiley

Seriously though it just made us feel closer.  Don't let it ride cos you'll be frustated all the time!
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« Reply #4 on: January 13, 2010, 01:02:51 PM »

KB-  I think you should "get mediaeval on his ass" (BG- name that movie!)

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« Reply #5 on: January 13, 2010, 01:12:45 PM »

Don't wimp out either, kellybean!  Tell him what you need.

Heck, even I told MrG that he needs to get me oral once a month and not just once a year!  On the flip side, I'm still waiting for him to give me anything at all this month/year!
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