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« on: December 25, 2008, 07:33:36 AM »

Prompted by "When I grow up I want to be Spank Daddy" in the blog. 

Is spanking erotic, or is it sadistic?  Have you participated?  Do you? 
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« Reply #1 on: December 25, 2008, 04:11:29 PM »

I've never done it.  It's never occurred to me.  Even after reading the article, it still doesn't occur to me.  Weird.  Just doesn't seem natural.  But what can you lose?  What does seem natural to me, apparently, doesn't work very well--seems to create boredom.

The question is, am I that willing to do something like this in order to get some P?  I don't know.  I feel like a woman who is clueless about BJ's.  I'm suddenly feeling very self-conscious about my ability, technique, and wondering why the need in some (many) women for something like this seems to be so high.  I'm like, "Really?  Wow.  I don't think I can do that."

Of course, don't forget that this guy is English, and so it would seem, were his female subjects.  It's well known that spanking is big over there, but not here.  Maybe if I were English I'd get it, but I just don't get it.
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« Reply #2 on: December 25, 2008, 07:09:14 PM »

I'd give it a try if I ever had the chance.  Never have so far in my life and the wife isn't into trying but...

I couldn't do the whip or paddle aspect but just my hand, yeah, I'd be open to doing it especially if the woman wanted it.
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« Reply #3 on: December 25, 2008, 09:53:52 PM »

I like to have a little spank here and there during sex but not full on spankings. I especially like it during doggie and I get a swat here and there. Wink
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« Reply #4 on: December 28, 2008, 10:52:45 AM »

What?!?!  What was that about spanking being bigger in the UK?

I'm missing something here!!
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« Reply #5 on: December 28, 2008, 05:40:11 PM »

Um, yes.  I like to be spanked. I like to be told that I've been naughty and later I will get my consequence. It's more of a playful talking it up a bit, building the excitement torture. Knowing that later they'll be in the mood to get a bit freaky.  I'm not into the lay across his lap and get spanked, but in the heat of the moment, we both spank.  Either I spank his ass, or hit him on the top of the head/shoulder. Ass gets him going better.    *hi yah hi yah*
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« Reply #6 on: December 28, 2008, 08:55:35 PM »

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or hit him on the top of the head/shoulder.

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Wow.
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« Reply #7 on: December 29, 2008, 08:50:42 AM »

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or hit him on the top of the head/shoulder.

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Wow.

Me too.... Huh
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« Reply #8 on: December 30, 2008, 05:56:50 AM »

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Did that sound bad guys?

I don't hit him hard... but when he hits that certain spot....

It's like scratching a dog, you find the good spot and his leg just goes with it.  Cheesy

I've learned to control this reflex...kinda.  Now I pound on the bed. lol...
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« Reply #9 on: December 30, 2008, 02:57:37 PM »

Grin

Did that sound bad guys?

I don't hit him hard... but when he hits that certain spot....

It's like scratching a dog, you find the good spot and his leg just goes with it.  Cheesy

I've learned to control this reflex...kinda.  Now I pound on the bed. lol...

I just get a weird picture of you punching him during sex...hehe! Cheesy
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« Reply #10 on: December 31, 2008, 05:59:01 AM »

lmao...no, no punching...just heavy slapping.
Poor guys come out of it with a read shoulder  Roll Eyes
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« Reply #11 on: December 31, 2008, 07:22:50 AM »

*laughing at kellybean*  I've been known to bite a shoulder or two before! 

Spanking?  Ummm, yes please.
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« Reply #12 on: December 31, 2008, 08:14:00 AM »

Yes..I like a bit of spanking here and there. Especially when doing doggie. Or anal.

I didn't know that I like to receive it. Nor that I liked to give it. But D somehow got it out of me I suppose. Its erotic, its sexy, its hot. I LOVE to see my ass cheeks red when I look in the mirror afterwards.

Sometimes I like a slap as well.  Roll Eyes
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« Reply #13 on: December 31, 2008, 07:10:05 PM »

*laughing at kellybean*  I've been known to bite a shoulder or two before! 

Spanking?  Ummm, yes please.

I tend to bite and pull hair on the head. I can get pretty rough when I get to a certain point. I also talk like a porn star! Wonder where that comes from?Huh
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« Reply #14 on: January 03, 2009, 12:23:57 PM »

*laughing at kellybean*  I've been known to bite a shoulder or two before! 

Spanking?  Ummm, yes please.

I tend to bite and pull hair on the head. I can get pretty rough when I get to a certain point. I also talk like a porn star! Wonder where that comes from?Huh


LMAO...you crack me up WhoMe....and make me a bit jealous...which I could talk like a porn star~!!
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